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» სპოილერის ნახვისთვის დააწკაპუნეთ აქ « ESFP PERSONALITY (“THE ENTERTAINER”)
I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you surely don't deserve me at my best.
Marilyn Monroe
If anyone is to be found spontaneously breaking into song and dance, it is the ESFP personality type. ESFPs get caught up in the excitement of the moment, and want everyone else to feel that way, too. No other personality type is as generous with their time and energy as ESFPs when it comes to encouraging others, and no other personality type does it with such irresistible style.
We Are All of Us Stars...
ESFP personalityBorn entertainers, ESFPs love the spotlight, but all the world's a stage. Many famous people with the ESFP personality type are indeed actors, but they love putting on a show for their friends too, chatting with a unique and earthy wit, soaking up attention and making every outing feel a bit like a party. Utterly social, ESFPs enjoy the simplest things, and there's no greater joy for them than just having fun with a good group of friends.
It's not just talk either – ESFPs have the strongest aesthetic sense of any personality type. From grooming and outfits to a well-appointed home, ESFP personalities have an eye for fashion. Knowing what's attractive the moment they see it, ESFPs aren't afraid to change their surroundings to reflect their personal style. ESFPs are naturally curious, exploring new designs and styles with ease.
Though it may not always seem like it, ESFPs know that it's not all about them – they are observant, and very sensitive to others' emotions. People with this personality type are often the first to help someone talk out a challenging problem, happily providing emotional support and practical advice. However, if the problem is about them, ESFPs are more likely to avoid a conflict altogether than to address it head-on. ESFPs usually love a little drama and passion, but not so much when they are the focus of the criticisms it can bring.
...And We Deserve to Twinkle
The biggest challenge ESFPs face is that they are often so focused on immediate pleasures that they neglect the duties and responsibilities that make those luxuries possible. Complex analysis, repetitive tasks, and matching statistics to real consequences are not easy activities for ESFPs. They'd rather rely on luck or opportunity, or simply ask for help from their extensive circle of friends. It is important for ESFPs to challenge themselves to keep track of long-term things like their retirement plans or sugar intake – there won't always be someone else around who can help to keep an eye on these things.
ESFPs recognize value and quality, which on its own is a fine trait. In combination with their tendency to be poor planners though, this can cause them to live beyond their means, and credit cards are especially dangerous. More focused on leaping at opportunities than in planning out long-term goals, ESFPs may find that their inattentiveness has made some activities unaffordable.
There's nothing that makes ESFPs feel quite as unhappy as realizing that they are boxed in by circumstance, unable to join their friends.
ESFPs are welcome wherever there's a need for laughter, playfulness, and a volunteer to try something new and fun – and there's no greater joy for ESFP personalities than to bring everyone else along for the ride. ESFPs can chat for hours, sometimes about anything but the topic they meant to talk about, and share their loved ones' emotions through good times and bad. If they can just remember to keep their ducks in a row, they'll always be ready to dive into all the new and exciting things the world has to offer, friends in tow.
» სპოილერის ნახვისთვის დააწკაპუნეთ აქ « ESFP STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES
ESFP Strengths
Bold – ESFPs aren't known for holding back. Wanting to experience everything there is to experience, people with the ESFP personality type don't mind stepping out of their comfort zones when no one else is willing.
Original – Traditions and expectations are secondary to ESFPs, if a consideration at all. ESFP personalities love to experiment with new styles, and constantly find new ways to stick out in the crowd.
Aesthetics and Showmanship – Not stopping at mere outfits, ESFPs inject artistic creativity into their words and actions, too. Every day is a performance, and ESFPs love to put on a show.
Practical – To ESFPs, the world is meant to be felt and experienced. Truth is stranger than fiction, and ESFPs prefer to see and do than to wax philosophical about "what-ifs".
Observant – With all this focus on the here and now, on doing and acting, it makes sense that ESFPs are naturals when it comes to noticing real, tangible things and changes.
Excellent People Skills – More so than things though, ESFPs love to pay attention to people. They are talkative, witty, and almost never run out of things to discuss. For people with this personality type, happiness and satisfaction stem from the time they spend with the people they enjoy being with.
ESFP Weaknesses
Sensitive – ESFPs (especially Turbulent ones) are strongly emotional, and very vulnerable to criticism – they can feel like they've been backed into a corner, sometimes reacting badly. This is probably ESFPs' greatest weakness, because it makes it so hard to address any other weaknesses brought to light.
Conflict-Averse – ESFPs sometimes ignore and avoid conflict entirely. They tend to say and do what's needed to get out of such situations, then move on to something more fun.
Easily Bored – Without constant excitement, ESFPs find ways to create it themselves. Risky behavior, self-indulgence, and the pleasures of the moment over long-term plans are all things ESFPs get into a little too often.
Poor Long-Term Planners – In fact, ESFP personalities rarely make detailed plans for the future. To them, things come as they come, and they rarely bother with taking the time to lay out steps and consequences, with the belief that they could change at any moment – even with things that can be planned.
Unfocused – Anything that requires long-term dedication and focus is a particular challenge for ESFPs. In academics, dense, unchanging subjects like Classic Literature are much more difficult than more dynamic, relatable subjects like psychology. The trick for ESFPs is to find day-to-day joy in broader goals, and to tough it out with those tedious things that must be done.
» სპოილერის ნახვისთვის დააწკაპუნეთ აქ « ESFP RELATIONSHIPS
ESFPs are social, fun-loving, free-spirited people who live life in the moment and squeeze every little bit of excitement from everything. Naturally, they don't spare any of this freshness and energy when dating. For people with the ESFP personality type, relationships aren't about slowly building foundations for the future, or planning out a life – they are bubbling, unpredictable things to be enjoyed for as long as there's enjoyment to be had.
Here Today, Gone Tomorrow
Of course, when that enjoyment does burn out, it's gone. ESFPs reevаluate their situations and commitments constantly, regardless of professions of love and dedication today. If a week later they just don't feel the same, that's it, and ESFP personalities have no problem seriously considering breaking things off. While ESFPs can be willing to work on their relationships rather than swap them out, it takes a great deal of maturity and experience for them to realize that it can be worth the bother.
ESFP relationshipsWhile they do last though, relationships with ESFPs are simply unforgettable. People with this personality type always have some new and exciting activity up their sleeves, and they genuinely enjoy spending each moment with their partners. ESFPs enjoy physical intimacy immensely, and they prove themselves affectionate, inquisitive, and open-minded lovers who love to share pleasure with willing and reciprocative partners.
Conversation with ESFPs is similar, focusing on fun, sometimes quirky subjects rather than deep, soul-searching expressions. The past and the future, the sciences and politics, and long-term plans and commitments are all routinely ignored by ESFP personalities. They slow things down and add too much weight to ESFPs' freewheeling style.
ESFPs happily chat about just about anything or anyone that comes to mind, but won't have a topic forced.
Highly emotional people, and sensitive, ESFPs respond poorly to outside "suggestions" on how to manage their love lives. They respond even worse if criticisms come from their partners, and trying to take emotions out of the picture by telling ESFPs to "not take this personally" isn't helpful either. Handling these situations better is a definite area for improvement for ESFPs, as there are entire dating strategies (pretty distasteful, manipulative ones) that revolve around exploiting this very trait.
On the other hand, the issue can be a lack of criticism at all. ESFPs value social input a lot, and are almost as affected by their friends' opinions of their dating partners as their own. Since ESFPs are attracted to people who share their attitudes, whether dating partners or friends, this can leave them in an echo chamber that only tells them what they want to hear, reinforcing immature behaviors.
Just Trying to Find Somebody to Love
All of these tendencies can really come back to haunt people with the ESFP personality type later on. ESFPs' tendency to avoid promises and commitments and jump from partner to partner sabotages necessary long-term goals like retirement planning. Building real relationships takes time and conscious effort. This makes Introverted (I) and Judging (J) partners (who preferably share the Observant [S] trait) very rewarding partners, as they help ESFPs to develop a sense of introspection, as well as some healthy stability and reliability.
Luckily, ESFPs are incredibly likeable people who enjoy life's small pleasures, and hardly want for diversity in their partners. Enthusiastic and affectionate, with a pure and down-to-earth love that just takes things at face value, ESFPs are fortunate that they take the time to find someone they truly enjoy being with every day, rather than settling too soon for stability over happiness, only to lose both.
» სპოილერის ნახვისთვის დააწკაპუნეთ აქ « ESFP FRIENDS
ESFPs are known for their irrepressibly social and excited attitudes. They don't internalize much of anything, sharing it all with their extensive circles of friends with wit, style, enthusiasm, and optimism. ESFPs are explorers of the pleasures of life, and they take particular pleasure in sharing those experiences with others. For ESFPs, there's no point in living if you can't feel alive.
Better Be Totally Ridiculous Than Totally Boring
ESFP friendsESFPs are people of action. Getting out with activities that engage all five senses is ESFP personalities' idea of a good time. Sometimes though, ESFPs may go too far with risky or careless behaviors, and try to bring others along for the ride. People with this personality type are sensitive, and rejecting these pastimes can be taken personally, ending friendships then and there. ESFPs don't have time to be lectured.
Making new friends isn't a problem for ESFPs though – they use an alluring combination of blunt truths and disarming openness and charm to keep things moving. Where ESFP personalities falter is in keeping the friends they already have. In their excitement and focus on here and now over history, ESFPs too easily exhaust the adventure one person has to offer, moving on once one person's novelty has worn off.
This can all give the impression that ESFPs are shallow, pleasure-centric creatures who care little for anyone but themselves. This is a terrible misunderstanding, and far from the truth, but nevertheless makes friendships with Intuitive (N) personality types challenging. ESFPs care sincerely about their friends – it's why they put so much effort into coming up with group experiences they believe everyone will enjoy – and they are deeply distressed by the occasional conflicts that end these relationships.
As they grow and mature, ESFPs respect different personality types and approaches more and more.
Novelty is king for people with the ESFP personality type, and there's only so much diversity among fellow Explorer types. ESFPs love touching on intellectual and philosophical subjects, and they seek out a diversity of personality types and perspectives to keep among their friends. But as these friends grind into the details of some esoteric topic about the long-term consequences of faltering European economic output, ESFPs inevitably find their minds wandering, hoping for someone to rush up and say "Guess what just happened!"
» სპოილერის ნახვისთვის დააწკაპუნეთ აქ « ESFP PARENTS
ESFPs are some of the most relaxed, fun-loving parents out there. Playing with children is a genuine pleasure for them, and people with the ESFP personality type constantly devise new and exciting ways to enjoy their time with their children. From the first moment they hold their babies, ESFPs are taken with the joy and wonder that their children experience in everything around them, and share and encourage it as much as possible.
They Who Are Brave Are Free
Exploration and experiences are key philosophies for ESFP parents – when their children ask questions, the answer is "Let's find out!" Overbearing structures and tightly scheduled activities aren't a big part of ESFP personalities' parenting. They'd much rather take things day by day and break up the crust by letting their children explore something new in their own way, something much appreciated by ESFPs' children.
Of course, this doesn't mean there aren't any rules – ESFPs were young once, too!
Discipline is far from their strongest suit, but hindsight and maturity have their effects, and ESFPs are often keen to prevent their children from suffering the same hurts and setbacks they themselves experienced. People with the ESFP personality type are quite sensitive themselves, and expect their children to be respectful and considerate with what rules there are, a point of contention through the teenage years.
ESFPs always keep up their end of the bargain though, providing plenty of emotional support. While not especially demanding parents, warm affection and a sense of practicality give ESFP personalities a very nurturing and encouraging parenting style, filling the gap nicely. When their children declare themselves future astronauts, ESFPs happily build make-believe spaceships, and later use those declarations to help their children focus on their schoolwork and goals. After all, successful astronauts need to know their math! |
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